Growth vs Fixed

Change your thoughts & actions from what if

to
How did I do?

The difference?
The what if's never get started. The how did I do's finish and ask for feedback.
The what if's wait for permission. The how did I do's ask for forgiveness.
The what if's have a bias for safety. The how did I do's have a bias for action.
Sidestep thinking

The how did I do's have the advantage of HAVING SOMETHING completed. They were able to ignore their perfectionism and ship. They can just look back at what they've ALREADY done and ask for feedback.
The what if's run into a WALL of DOUBT. And never do anything.
Don't Be A What If. Be A How Did I Do?
That's all.
with love,

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